Why Are Kids Picky Eaters? While training to become a Registered Dietitian, I learned all the “tricks” to deal with a picky eater.
OR SO I THOUGHT!
I was basically under the impression that picky eating was the result of poor parenting. HAAA! This is so much more of a complicated subject than I was led to believe.
Well, I'm here to tell you that reality finally set in the day my son was born.
That's right!
I couldn't breastfeed like I planned to because all of the book knowledge (AND WIC experience) didn't help me with my own unique problem. My son had a small mouth, a high palate, and it just wasn't going to work!
So, I dealt with it in the only way I knew. I pumped with a hospital-grade pump for 8 months (because the regular $200 pump wasn't effective, and I started to lose my supply). Breastmilk is so incredibly superior to formula (not to mention that Nathan projectile vomited the formula up the first and only time we tried to give it to him right after he was born), that I was determined he was going to get it one way or another.
WHY ARE KIDS PICKY EATERS?
The good news is that I learned things along the way that are helping me to encourage my son to eat a more healthy and varied diet.
It started with pumping for breastmilk for eight months to what I am continuing to do today. And I'm still learning.
My son, Nathan, is now 20 years old, and was diagnosed with autism at 12, after years of symptoms pointing to it. One of the symptoms being Sensory Processing Disorder.
Sensory Processing Disorder affects many areas. However, one area in particular is sensitivity to food textures. It took me a long time to realize how much of my son's pickiness was related to food texture, because prior to having my son, I had never even heard of Sensory Processing Disorder.
So, one of the most effective ways I have learned to help my son with his food-related sensory processing deficits is to:
Keep Foods Separate
Serving foods separately (as opposed to multi-texture casseroles, for example) encourages my son to try new foods. Foods, that when served as part of a mix, he wouldn't be willing to try.
A little more history…
When Nathan started eating solid foods, I did all of the “correct” things I was taught to do in school. I made everything from scratch, gave him whole grains, hid vegetables (at least tried to), made cute faces on bagels. You name it, I tried it.
Why are kids picky eaters?
My first clue that Nathan had texture issues with food was when I fed him pureed brown rice when he was six months old.
When Nathan was 6 months old, I gave him pureed brown rice and he gagged/spit it out. I thought it was simply because he didn't like it. In fact, it was one of my favorite stories for years. Because let's face it, pureed brown rice doesn't sound very tasty!
Obviously, he was too young to tell me any different. So, I left it as just “he doesn't like brown rice.” However, I'm convinced it was actually a texture issue that caused the gagging/spitting up. He actually likes rice now. Even though he complains when I give him brown rice, he will eat it as long as it has cheese on it.
And then there was the “trying to hide the vegetables trick.”
That was a good one! He could see the vegetables and he could feel them in his mouth. No way was that going to work. I have found one solution to this problem, though: Homemade pureed broccoli, potato or mushroom soups. He will eat these.
It's such a cute idea to make faces on your pancakes and bagels. However, my son was not impressed. He wouldn't touch the pancakes or bagels if they were decorated. Why? Because technically that makes them a combination food. So, if he wasn't interested in eating a bagel, putting a face on it only made it worse!
NO COMBO FOODS (or very few anyway)
Nathan is now 20 years old, and there are still many things he will not accept, especially if foods are mixed together. For example, Nathan likes broccoli, he likes pasta with alfredo sauce, and he likes chicken. However, I cannot serve the three as one dish. In fact, I can only serve two of those three things on the same plate (broccoli and chicken), and the pasta in a bowl.
Okay, okay! I COULD put those foods together.
However, he would loudly and vehemently complain, and it would add conflict to our already fragile-at-times relationship. Yes, I try to be happy that he eats those three things, even if it does mean more work for me.
So, I have discovered that separating most foods before serving goes a long way towards appeasing his pickiness. And it definitely increases the variety of foods he will eat.
There are exceptions to this rule, by the way. For example, he will eat the delicious rice casserole I make on Christmas. And he will eat the original Garden Burger, which is a combo of rice, oats, onions, mushrooms.
If it's healthy, stick with what they like.
For example, Nathan wants to eat broccoli every night. He also likes brussels sprouts and carrots, but brussels sprouts are expensive, so we don't have those all of the time. He complains when I give him carrots, though I still give them to him once a week or so. However, since broccoli is so good for him, I don't mind giving him broccoli most days.
And I give him lots of broccoli for the first serving, because I've discovered he'll never ask for more. In contrast, when I give him pasta or meat, I give him less, because I know he'll ask for more if he's still hungry. This is a great way to prevent excess weight gain.
Don't give up on trying new things.
Especially if there is an entire food group missing from their diet. I have been told that you have to try something like 30 times before you know whether you like it. In theory, that sounds great, so you should try it. I'm sure it works.
Because if you have, and you've succeeded, I am SERIOUS when I say I want to hear from you. Because I am not perfect and I definitely don't know everything. And I know that I can learn something from you, the readers.
Make sure your child is taking a good multivitamin with Iron.
Giving my son a multivitamin reassures me that he's getting at least most of the stuff he isn't getting through his diet. I just keep focusing on explaining why he should be eating this and that. And when he asks why he has to take that big old pill, I explain to him it's because he's not eating enough whole fruits and vegetables. I'm hoping eventually the light will come on.
A good multivitamin with Iron (one that is dye free, if possible) will supplement your child's diet and should be safe for most children. Taking individual supplements (for example, iron only or zinc only) can throw other vitamin and mineral levels in the body off balance.
I do not recommend taking a specific nutrient supplement, without talking to your doctor first.
Here is an example of a typical day in Nathan's diet:
Breakfast
Cheese Quesadilla – Cheese melted on flour tortilla in microwave
100% Juice
Lunch
Chicken Leg/Garden Burger/Fish Sticks (Van De Camps are the best/highest quality I have found); taquitos or mini tacos
Fruit or avocado (Nathan likes plain avocado, and avocado is really good for you, including being high in magnesium).
Did I mention that my son doesn't eat the perfect diet?
Well, you have to pick your battles, and even as a dietitian, this can be a struggle. That's why multivitamins are so important.
BALANCE IS KEY
Whole grain (as much as I can get away with) pasta or rice with cheese
I have started using lentil pasta because Nathan likes it better than whole wheat pasta. Adding lentil pasta is an excellent nutritional choice on many levels. Lentils are a type of bean (legume). Thus, they have additional nutrients that grains, even whole grains, do not.
The only problem for us is that we have found only one brand that is acceptable. The other brands we have tried were just way too starchy. The brand we use is Lensi, and they sell it at Walmart. They have it at Amazon as well, though it's a lot more expensive than at Walmart. It is super high in protein, and of course, gluten-free. Plus, there are other bean pastas on the market today. The more variety in your child's diet, the better.
Fruit – white grapes, strawberries, blueberries, or watermelon
100% Juice Box -it's important to make sure you are buying 100% juice
Dinner
Chicken Leg/Garden Burger/Fish Sticks/Cod or Salmon
Pasta or rice with cheese or cheese sauce
Broccoli – Fresh only; Nathan won't eat frozen
Milk – Horizon Organic chocolate, vanilla, or strawberry–no artificial colors, lower in sugar than store brand chocolate milk
Snacks
Nonfat frozen yogurt or no sugar added ice cream for dessert
Plain tortilla or multi-Grain chips or Pretzels with string cheese – 9:00 snack -he's very consistent about this
Unfiltered Apple Juice or 100% orange juice (one 4-6 ounce serving each)
So, there it is. I would love to hear what you think, and would like it even more if you shared some of your ideas and things that have worked for you in dealing with your kid's pickiness!
This was a previously published article from 2018 with information on artificial additives that have been shown to have adverse effects on the nervous systems of sensitive individuals.
MSG (Monosodium Glutamate)
is an amino acid used as a flavor enhancer in soups, salad dressings, chips, frozen entrees, and many restaurant foods, especially Asian cuisine. MSG has been shown to cause neurological symptoms such as nervousness, headaches, depression, and fatigue, in sensitive individuals.
How can I know if there is MSG in my food?
FDA requires that foods containing added MSG list it in the ingredient panel on the packaging as monosodium glutamate. However, MSG occurs naturally in ingredients such as hydrolyzed vegetable protein, autolyzed yeast, hydrolyzed yeast, yeast extract, soy extracts, and protein isolate, as well as in tomatoes and cheeses. While FDA requires that these products be listed on the ingredient panel, the agency does not require the label to also specify that they naturally contain MSG. However, foods with any ingredient that naturally contains MSG cannot claim “No MSG” or “No added MSG” on their packaging. MSG also cannot be listed as “spices and flavoring.”
Aspartame (Brand Name NutraSweet and Equal)
Can also cause neurological symptoms, including migraines
Click the following link for more specific information on Aspartame:
Common Food Dyes associated with hyperactivity, especially in children with ADHD and Autism, include
Blue No. 2
is also called “indigo blue” or “indigotine,” a synthetic petroleum product, that is made from the natural indigo, a dye that comes from plants. It is used in baked goods, cereals, ice cream, snacks, candies and cherries.
In September 2007, a study reported by D. McCann and colleagues in the journal “The Lancet” linked artificial colorings, including Blue No. 2, to hyperactivity. Nearly 300 children in the study were given a beverage with artificial colors and a preservative. Drinking the beverage resulted in increased hyperactivity in the children, which the researchers attributed to the artificial coloring or the preservative or both. As a result, one candy company, Nestlé-Rowntree, stopped selling one of its candies with a blue shell until it replaced the artificial color with a new blue color made from spirulina, a blue-green algae. https://www.livestrong.com/article/402118-the-health-dangers-of-food-coloring-blue-no-2/
Yellow No. 5
Found in potato chips, jams, candy (think candy corn), and pet food, is associated with allergies, including asthma, cancer, as well as hyperactivity. In 2013, the Code of Federal Regulations began requiring that foods containing yellow No. 5 have a warning label on the package. https://www.livestrong.com/article/370945-health-effects-of-yellow-5-food-coloring/
Red Dye No. 3
Banned in any product that goes on the skin, but is still legal as a food additive. It has been associated with Thyroid cancer, DNA damage to human liver cells in vitro (developing embryo/fetus), in addition to hyperactivity in kids. https://nutritionfacts.org/2015/04/30/coloring-to-dye-for-dangers-of-red-no-3/
Red No. 40
Made from petroleum distillates or coal tars. Red 40 contains p-Cresidine, which the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services says is “reasonably anticipated” to be a human carcinogen. FDA regulations mean that Red 40 must be listed on labels as “FD&C Red No. 40” or “Red 40.” https://www.healthline.com/health/food-nutrition/is-red-dye-40-toxic#hazards
(Butylated hydroxyanisole and butylated hydroxytoluene) are preservatives found in cereals, chewing gum, potato chips, and vegetable oils. BHA/BHT are artificial preservatives used to increase the shelf life of foods on grocery shelf.
Sodium Nitrites/Nitrates
Used as a preservative, coloring, and flavoring in bacon, ham, hot dogs, lunch meats, corned beef, smoked fish and other processed meats. This is what gives ham its reddish color, for example.
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There is a lot of hype these days over the idea of Superfoods. So, I thought it would be appropriate to discuss some of the foods. But first a definition. A Superfood is defined as “a nutrient-rich food especially beneficial for health and well-being.”
I created this recipe myself years ago when I had cottage cheese in the house and wanted to make it more interesting. This will make a complete meal with a few whole grain crackers or slice of bread on the side.
Prep Time10 minutesmins
Total Time10 minutesmins
Servings: 4
Calories: 204kcal
Author: Deborah Hanyon, MPH, RDN, ACE-CHC
Ingredients
2wholeAvocadoscut in half, pitted and sliced
2cupLow-fat cottage cheese
2 tbspSalsa
Instructions
Cut avocados in half; remove pit, peel and slice
place 1/2 cup cottage cheese on small plate or bowl
place 1/2 of avocado around the outside rim of cottage cheese
The vibrant color of beets is your first clue that these unique vegetables are highly nutritious. But what is the nutrient behind the color of beets? The nutrients are called “Betalains.”
Betalains are members of the carotenoid family. Carotenoids are rich in antioxidants. Antioxidants protect against damage from the sun and other environmental toxins.
To help you get a chance to try beets, below is a recipe my husband likes to make.
*NOTE: Beets are an excellent source of natural food colorings. Click here for an awesome website that teaches all about natural dyes, including beets.
Apple cider vinegar is the result of the fermentation of apple cider, which is made from fresh, crushed apples, including the cores, peels, and flesh.
Fermentation occurs when yeast is added to the apple cider mixture. This process produces acetic acid, also known as apple cider vinegar.
The healthiest form of apple cider vinegar is the unfiltered, unpasteurized form. This is because the enzymes remain active.
Regardless of whether it is pasteurized or not, however, studies show that the acidity in apple cider vinegar protects the stomach against pathogens.
The acid stimulates the production of hydrochloric acid in the stomach, which is essential for proper digestion.
In some studies, apple cider vinegar caused leukemia cell death and inhibited tumor growth.
Apple Cider vinegar is also a source of polyphenols, protective ingredients found in plants.
Interesting Folklore on Apple Cider Vinegar
1. Hippocrates used vinegar to manage wounds.
2. Hannibal of Carthage used vinegar to dissolve boulders that blocked his army's path.
3. Cleopatra dissolved precious pearls in vinegar and offered her love potion to Anthony.
4. Sung Tse advocated hand washing with sulfur and vinegar to avoid infection during autopsies.
Smoothie bowls… the delicious concoctions that have quickly become everybody's favorite breakfast-snack-dessert-treat. This Antioxidant-Rich Beet and Berry Smoothie Bowl is made with probiotic-rich yogurt, healthy avocados, and bright pink beets and berries. It's easy and full of protein whenever hunger strikes! Click here for the free recipe.
I used to LOVE Banquet TV dinners, especially the ones with Salisbury Steak and mashed potatoes. As a single person, they were my go to when I felt like having a hearty meal but didn't want to cook. I especially loved them because they were so cheap.
But of course, after studying nutrition all those years, I started to compulsively read ingredient lists. As a result, I haven’t had a Banquet TV dinner in 20 years.
I’m going to take a risk here and tell you why I’m mentioning this.
I had a dream a couple of weeks ago about a Banquet HUNGRY-MAN dinner. (That’s right, I’m a bit nuts)! =)
Anyway, In the dream, there was a mom struggling with behavior issues in her son, and a doctor had written a note asking if by any chance her son’s behavior issues that day started after eating lunch.
His lunch was a Banquet Hungry-Man dinner.
I remember thinking, “Wow! What a good doctor!” I remember the mom was worried about too many calories. However, in the dream, I was remembering and explaining to her about all of the stuff they put in those Banquet dinners, and how much better for you homemade cooking is.
She was a person who liked cooking but didn’t have a lot of time. Sound like anyone you know?
When I woke up that morning, I knew I needed to invest some time and energy into looking at what exactly the current Banquet dinners contain.
My husband went to the store for me—he’s such a great guy—and looked for the Hungry-man version, they didn’t have it, so we settled for the regular Banquet dinner.
When he brought it home, the first thing I noticed was that the label was WAY smaller than it was 20 years ago—though that could just be my aging eyes! LOL
I wish I could say I was totally shocked by what was on the label, but of course I wasn’t. My husband took a picture of the ingredients, so I could read them, I kid you not!
First, the mashed potatoes had three lines of ingredients, including Monosodium Glutamate (MSG), BHT, and a bunch of other yucky stuff; the Salisbury steak patty, over two lines with MSG also as an ingredient; the apple dessert contained some choice ingredients as well. If you want to see what's in the dinner, here is the link to Banquet. (Though, keep in mind that the company spends an unusual amount of time “explaining away” the bizarre ingredients).
Since the ingredients are truly horrendous, and since the main reason we eat TV dinners is because they’re quick and easy, my husband and I put our heads together to create a delicious alternative. Ron and Nathan prepared the Salisbury steak with mushroom gravy, mashed potatoes and corn last Thursday.
And last night, Ron finally prepared the Apple Cinnamon Dessert.
This meal shouldn't be too difficult, and most of the ingredients will be freezable and reheatable, just like a ”real” TV dinner. 🙂 Also, if you are concerned about calorie content, don't forget that you can reduce serving size.
In the meantime, here are some older posts I have written related to diet and our kiddos (even though some of them focus on ADHD or Autism, they really do apply to all of us, because artificial additives aren't good for ANYONE, and we all need a healthy, balanced diet).
Diabetes Type 2 is the more common type, and it was formerly known as Adult-Onset Diabetes since it was mostly diagnosed in the adult age group. However, with recent advances in medicine, it is now known that the disease is not limited to adults as it affects children and teenagers alike.
According to the American Diabetes Association, 34.2 million Americans or 10.5% of the population have diabetes, with nearly 6,000 youths newly diagnosed with Type 2 Diabetes annually as of 2020.
This is a very alarming statistic since it is known that Diabetes kills more Americans every year than AIDS and breast cancer combined.
Diabetes in childhood is a growing concern in America and parents should help manage and prevent their children from having diabetes by making healthy lifestyle changes early in childhood.
Here are three recommendations on how to prevent and manage childhood Type 2 Diabetes.
1. Weight Management
According to the American Diabetes Association, 89% of adults with diagnosed Diabetes are overweight or obese. Obesity is a known major risk factor for developing Type 2 Diabetes. Teaching children how to eat a balanced diet with low glycemic index foods at an early age will help reduce the risk for developing Type 2 Diabetes.
A balanced diet will supply their body with the proper nutrition and low-glycemic index foods can prevent their blood glucose from rising too high. Low-glycemic index foods are still possible to find even on a budget. Our article on ‘Healthy Eating on a Budget’ talks about healthy meal planning for kids on a budget, which is definitely worth a read.
Here are examples of low-glycemic index foods that children could enjoy:
Portion control simply means controlling how much food is eaten in one sitting. Increased portion sizes are linked to weight gain and overeating. Parents can prepare their children’s plates with the proper proportion of different food groups. The USDA through Myplate.gov has simple guidelines online that can serve as a reference for parents interested in serving healthy proportionate meals at home, even on a budget.
By practicing portion control at an early age, this develops into a habit that children carry to adulthood, hence, lessening the risk of overindulging in carbohydrates that could lead to diabetes.
Exercise Regularly
Exercise is good for our health and is a fantastic way to prevent and manage Type 2 Diabetes.
The 2018 study by Physical Activity Guidelines for Americans advises that children ages 6 to 17 years engage in 60 minutes of physical activity every day, including vigorous-intensity, muscle- and bone-strengthening activities at least three days a week. The guidelines suggest that children ages 3 to 5 years should have at least 180 minutes of physical activity throughout the day.
By engaging in physical activity, the child burns calories and lowers blood glucose levels. Glucose provides the energy needed by the muscles to move, which in effect, lowers the blood glucose levels.
Here are the other benefits of exercise:
Better weight control
Lower blood pressure
Stronger muscles
Stronger bones
Lean body
More energy
Better sleep
Type 2 Diabetes inflicts many children and teenagers.
Parents can help their children manage and prevent this disease by making the right lifestyle changes. For example,
Starting weight management measures.
Controlling the portions of what children eat.
And exercising regularly.
If you think any of your children might be at risk for Type 2 Diabetes, please set an appointment with your pediatrician for proper evaluation and management.
Control your Sugar Level: The Best Bread for People with Diabetes
Eating balanced and organic food is one of the best ways to keep your diabetes in control naturally.
If you are new to diabetes, people might advise you against having bread because bread is high in carbohydrate.
But bread is a staple food in most households in the US. So, if you are wondering what you can have instead of bread, the answer is you DON’T HAVE to switch.
People with diabetes can have bread without any fear, if your doctor permits and more importantly, if it is the right kind of bread.
So, what types of bread are best for people with diabetes? What should you look for when you are buying bread from stores?
Today we will talk about the types of bread that normalize your blood sugar naturally. We will also share tips to choose the best bread for diabetics.
Food and Glycemic Index
Carbohydrate is essential for human health development. However, it also contributes to the elevated sugar level in the blood for it easily breaks down to sugar.
On the other hand, good carbohydrates that are low in glycemic index or GI are the best foods that keep the blood sugar level as well as other issues, such as weight gain, heart diseases, etc., under control without external medication.
What is the Glycemic Index?
GI is a way to measure the foods that increase or decrease your blood sugar levels, i.e. glucose according to the American Diabetes Association (ADA).
The GI reference point is scored between 1 and 100. The lower the score the better the GI. Foods that do not contain carbs, such as meats, do not have a score.
White bread scores around 71.
Therefore, people with diabetes are advised against eating white bread.
The best foods for people with diabetes have a low-glycemic score (<55). These foods include pumpernickel bread, whole fruits, non-starchy vegetables, such as cauliflower, cabbage, broccoli, and cucumber, legumes, beans, and pulses, corn, yam, steel-cut oatmeal, and millet.
Other foods that contain medium-glycemic index (55 to 69) include quick oats, wheat bread, couscous, brown rice, Basmati rice, wild rice, and pita bread.
Foods with high-glycemic-index (>69) that people with diabetes ought to avoid:
– Potatoes
– Bananas
– Popcorn
– White rice
– Macaroni
– Breakfast cereals
– All refined foods
– Processed foods
– Pineapple
– Cooking oil
How to Choose Low GI Breads?
You must consider certain things, such as the nutritional factors when purchasing your bread.
The more processed a food is, the higher is the carb or GI level.
Therefore, we suggest you opt for whole meal or stone-ground bread to control your sugar level.
Now not all stores sell this kind of bread. So, if you need alternatives, make sure you read the labels of the bread packages and check the nutritional facts, such as calories, carbohydrates, fiber, fat, and sodium level.
– Calories: If you plan to eat two bread slices, keep the calories <90 per slice.
– Carbohydrate: The amount of carbs a person can have depends upon your meal plan, your weight-loss aim, and your health condition. However, a bread that has carbs between 15 and 20 gm or less (including sugar content) per slice is recommended.
– Fat: People with diabetes should aim at having foods that are low in saturated and trans fats, and high in healthy or unsaturated fat. Plain bread without nuts and seeds do not contain many fats However, if you must choose something with fat, make sure the bread has zero grams trans-fat and less than 1.5 grams of saturated fat.
– Fiber: Fiber is an essential nutrient for people with diabetes and obesity. It has many benefits, such as slowing down the processing of sugar in the blood. It also decreases appetite or hunger, keeps you full and energetic for a long time, regulates your bowel movements, and minimizes cholesterol level. Make sure the fiber content is highest or at least three grams per serving.
– Sodium: Sodium can increase blood pressure and therefore, diabetic people must completely minimize eating food with high sodium levels. Ensure that each slice of bread has less than 150 mg sodium, for example.
Bread that Keeps Your Diabetes in Control
If you are baking bread at home, you can include ingredients like flaxseeds, chia seeds, nuts, wheat bran, oats, and millet.
You can replace these ingredients with your regular flour in 1: 4 ratios (1/2 cup ingredient vs. 1 1/2 cup flour).
Bread that you can include in your diet includes:
– Whole-wheat bread or brown bread
– Multi-grain bread
– Gluten-free bread
– Organic bread
– Sprouted bread (Contains no flour and is made out of sprouting grains, beans, and seeds)
– Sourdough bread
– Tortillas
Unless your doctor specifies, it is not necessary to stop eating bread. Make sure your bread is GI low, sugar-free, trans-fat free, and whole grain.
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